So, you didn’t pass the bar. Let’s just pause right there.
First, take a breath. It can feel like the end of the world, especially after three (or more) years of grinding through law school. But here’s the truth that isn’t said enough: many smart, capable, successful lawyers were once unsuccessful on the bar. It happens all the time. What matters most is what you do next.
1. Feel the Feels (But Don’t Stay There Too Long)
All of your feelings are valid. Give yourself a few days to process. Talk to people you trust. Cry, vent, journal, binge a show… Just don’t make any major life decisions while emotions are raw.
2. Get Clarity
Once you’ve had space to process, it’s time to look at the results. Many jurisdictions provide a breakdown of your scores. Use this. It’s about understanding where you fell short: MBE, essays, performance tests, specific subjects, etc. This analysis is helpful for your next study plan.
3. Talk to Someone Who’s Been There
Connect with a bar prep tutor, a law school advisor, or even a friend who’s been through it. You’re not alone, and hearing someone else’s story can shift your perspective—and your strategy.
4. Rebuild Your Study Strategy
Was it a time issue? A content gap? Nerves? Whatever the reason, you now know what didn’t work. It might mean switching bar prep courses, getting more personalized support, or starting earlier this time. Be honest with yourself and be willing to pivot.
5. Make a Plan—and Keep Living Your Life
Yes, the bar is a big deal, but it doesn’t define you. Make a new study plan, yes, but also keep space for your mental health, relationships, and identity beyond the exam. You’re still on the path to being a great lawyer.
Retaking the bar exam is not your whole story. Take this setback seriously, but don’t let it write your ending. You’ve come too far to stop now. You’ve got this. Really.
(Erica Sylvia)
